ANGRY STRONG CHILDREN? ... READ THIS ......
ANGRY STRONG CHILDREN? ... READ THIS ......
Addressing the problem of intense anger in children Accelerated by Sharifah Norbaizura Mr. Ahmad Kamil, Bank Negara Malaysia. Create ponder .. the parents .. parents lightweight hand and mouth ... ... meditate. Our children are a reflection of ourselves ...... ..
Children in the age group 2-7 years (preschool is often labelled tough because you want to try anything that is seen and they also found 'not heard the word'. What happens is that the absence of two-way communication between parents and children. In addition the children really cannot hear well because of the directive does not give attention to the voice of parents. Instead they only focused attention on the game and the environment that they want to explore. children have a very limited verbal communication because they do not have knowledge (input) about it. They just learn to talk, so parents often cannot understand what is actually favoured by children. But the children screaming, throwing things, destroying games and so on because of frustration (frustration) because their life is not understood and met . children already know exactly disappointed sir / madam. Hence who write here.. who is guilty? Of course, adults because no effort to understand the needs of the child. There are some tips that can be given to sir / madam trying to solve this problem.
1. Children need affection and attention of both parents. If the father is rarely accompanied children, of course, will distract the child to his mother. Therefore try to understand the child's language by asking him gentle. Leave briefly what sir / madam do and give attention to the child. View his face and his eyes and face. How many times in our day eye contact with the child. Eye contact is very important in any kind of communication even with small children.
2. Once sir / madam came home from work and take the child from the nursery, take some time and a half hours in advance with the children. Do not continue to cook, remove the cloth and so on. Give first concern sir / madam to children. Ask a gentle and friendly what they make at home with daily maid or in the nursery / kindergarten. Cheer and hug and state in his ear, papa / mama very loved. Play with about a half hour, then gentlemen excused myself to the kitchen etc. God willing, the child will be heard because of the attention she expected was obtained.
3.Teach your child the word "wait a minute can" if the child needs something and sir / madam could not give it because it is busy cooking etc. And serve him as soon as an opportunity. Do not do not know anywhere or indifferent because actually sir / madam was teaching children to ignore sir / madam, if sir / madam was calling him. The right way to make her listen to you is by listening to her first. We cannot expect our children to obey every command because God did not make it happen so. Remember, children learn by imitating our every action. The proof can be seen when he served his brother.
4. Try to understand the personality of the child. Children who love to scream even do not have any reason can be categorized as Sanguine personality.This child is very like the attention. Therefore, if a child is screaming, give attention to him as looked up to him, if he clapped loudly singing etc. However, sir / madam can teach him that acts like screaming is not good because it can interfere with a little brother who was tougher. In the event that child likes to scream, sir / madam could get him an audience with empty walls and screamed at him repeatedly until he tired.Insha Allah he likes to scream because will be less to find activities tiring. Maybe he'll stop screaming or making behaviour a few days. If he repeats it again, gentlemen asked her to do the same thing until he eventually stopped. Give him a gives (candy, etc.) if sir / madam found she did not scream or yell less and less in a day as positive reinforcement. Tell him, papa / mama give chocolate gifts for sister did not scream today. With this child will understand that papa / mama do not like the act.
5.Always remind yourself sir / madam with the positive nature of the child. Lithe and neglected children entertained. Concentrate sir / madam on the edge, do not remember the lack of children and pray after every prayer that God would facilitate sir / madam change the negativity. Imagine a child with all the positive traits that sir / madam want whenever sir / madam interacting with children. Can also sir / madam do so half an hour after the child is going to bed and sleep soundly. Rub gently on the crown of her head, kissed and recite prayers and hopes mentioned sir / madam him. Egg 'papa / mama dear sister, papa / mama do not want my sister screamed again'. Mention specific matters that sir / madam wants. Do not just say 'papa / mama please change your sister' or calls with a negative tone as 'Apapa / Uma dislikes sister scream'. This technique is called imagery or visualization and found to be very effective if done repeatedly. Dear Sir / Madam also can recite Surah Alfatihah, Ayat Kursi and 3-Kul to children every time they go to bed to keep from Satan. Dear Sir / Madam, parenting is not easy especially in the age of globalization are challenging. Hopefully sir / madam more patient, do not ignore the child and try to understand it. Understand the world of children who have no problem, full of fun and exploration. Imagine the feelings of the child when scolded while trying to make what is explore the environment. Children live in a world without rules. Parents who make the rules, discipline and encouragement to the children. Buy books about parenting guide, identify the personality of children and ways to deal with it. I suggest sir / madam tried to get the book "Personality Plus for Parents" by Florence Littauer available at Kinokuniya, MPH etc. Indeed, investments whose parents do for children will make children as the most valuable asset in life ini.Umpteen,may Allah mercy and wisdom to sir / madam. Do not give up the child because it will make children give up on us as parents.
Thank you.
ANGRY STRONG CHILDREN? ... READ THIS ......
Addressing the problem of intense anger in children Accelerated by Sharifah Norbaizura Mr. Ahmad Kamil, Bank Negara Malaysia. Create ponder .. the parents .. parents lightweight hand and mouth ... ... meditate. Our children are a reflection of ourselves ...... ..
Children in the age group 2-7 years (preschool is often labelled tough because you want to try anything that is seen and they also found 'not heard the word'. What happens is that the absence of two-way communication between parents and children. In addition the children really cannot hear well because of the directive does not give attention to the voice of parents. Instead they only focused attention on the game and the environment that they want to explore. children have a very limited verbal communication because they do not have knowledge (input) about it. They just learn to talk, so parents often cannot understand what is actually favoured by children. But the children screaming, throwing things, destroying games and so on because of frustration (frustration) because their life is not understood and met . children already know exactly disappointed sir / madam. Hence who write here.. who is guilty? Of course, adults because no effort to understand the needs of the child. There are some tips that can be given to sir / madam trying to solve this problem.
1. Children need affection and attention of both parents. If the father is rarely accompanied children, of course, will distract the child to his mother. Therefore try to understand the child's language by asking him gentle. Leave briefly what sir / madam do and give attention to the child. View his face and his eyes and face. How many times in our day eye contact with the child. Eye contact is very important in any kind of communication even with small children.
2. Once sir / madam came home from work and take the child from the nursery, take some time and a half hours in advance with the children. Do not continue to cook, remove the cloth and so on. Give first concern sir / madam to children. Ask a gentle and friendly what they make at home with daily maid or in the nursery / kindergarten. Cheer and hug and state in his ear, papa / mama very loved. Play with about a half hour, then gentlemen excused myself to the kitchen etc. God willing, the child will be heard because of the attention she expected was obtained.
3.Teach your child the word "wait a minute can" if the child needs something and sir / madam could not give it because it is busy cooking etc. And serve him as soon as an opportunity. Do not do not know anywhere or indifferent because actually sir / madam was teaching children to ignore sir / madam, if sir / madam was calling him. The right way to make her listen to you is by listening to her first. We cannot expect our children to obey every command because God did not make it happen so. Remember, children learn by imitating our every action. The proof can be seen when he served his brother.
4. Try to understand the personality of the child. Children who love to scream even do not have any reason can be categorized as Sanguine personality.This child is very like the attention. Therefore, if a child is screaming, give attention to him as looked up to him, if he clapped loudly singing etc. However, sir / madam can teach him that acts like screaming is not good because it can interfere with a little brother who was tougher. In the event that child likes to scream, sir / madam could get him an audience with empty walls and screamed at him repeatedly until he tired.Insha Allah he likes to scream because will be less to find activities tiring. Maybe he'll stop screaming or making behaviour a few days. If he repeats it again, gentlemen asked her to do the same thing until he eventually stopped. Give him a gives (candy, etc.) if sir / madam found she did not scream or yell less and less in a day as positive reinforcement. Tell him, papa / mama give chocolate gifts for sister did not scream today. With this child will understand that papa / mama do not like the act.
5.Always remind yourself sir / madam with the positive nature of the child. Lithe and neglected children entertained. Concentrate sir / madam on the edge, do not remember the lack of children and pray after every prayer that God would facilitate sir / madam change the negativity. Imagine a child with all the positive traits that sir / madam want whenever sir / madam interacting with children. Can also sir / madam do so half an hour after the child is going to bed and sleep soundly. Rub gently on the crown of her head, kissed and recite prayers and hopes mentioned sir / madam him. Egg 'papa / mama dear sister, papa / mama do not want my sister screamed again'. Mention specific matters that sir / madam wants. Do not just say 'papa / mama please change your sister' or calls with a negative tone as 'Apapa / Uma dislikes sister scream'. This technique is called imagery or visualization and found to be very effective if done repeatedly. Dear Sir / Madam also can recite Surah Alfatihah, Ayat Kursi and 3-Kul to children every time they go to bed to keep from Satan. Dear Sir / Madam, parenting is not easy especially in the age of globalization are challenging. Hopefully sir / madam more patient, do not ignore the child and try to understand it. Understand the world of children who have no problem, full of fun and exploration. Imagine the feelings of the child when scolded while trying to make what is explore the environment. Children live in a world without rules. Parents who make the rules, discipline and encouragement to the children. Buy books about parenting guide, identify the personality of children and ways to deal with it. I suggest sir / madam tried to get the book "Personality Plus for Parents" by Florence Littauer available at Kinokuniya, MPH etc. Indeed, investments whose parents do for children will make children as the most valuable asset in life ini.Umpteen,may Allah mercy and wisdom to sir / madam. Do not give up the child because it will make children give up on us as parents.
Thank you.
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